The process of forming a child's character should be done early and parents need to gel to see where the attitudes are good and bad of the child. Sometimes parents do not prohibit something dangerous, but it allowed a dangerous and take that as a matter of course, for example: a child is forbidden to play for fear of being dirty, but kids love to whine even allowed to even obeyed. Because whining allowed, it will eventually become a weapon by a child to ask for something that he wants or wants attention so fulfilled.
Parents should find out, why whine? One reason children are whining is because children are not trained to communicate or speak the language well, then what happens is whining. When children are taught to speak and he will reveal something in a good way not to whine or cry when asked something he wants.
Parents should be able to give sense to the child, that not all wishes can be fulfilled. Giving meaning to the child should be done early, even in the womb. Parents often underestimate the ability of children, consider a child did not know what to communicate or receive a verbal understanding.
Son is the mandate for parents. Parents should guide children as well as possible to become good human beings. A good child is a child who can raise the degree of the parents rather than dropping it.